As you point out, muscle memory is something which is learnt, however reflex action is not. It is similar to what happens when one touches something red hot. Even before you perceive it is hot, reflex action kicks in and the hand is pulled back immediately. Reflex action is the body's attempt to prevent harm. This is completely involuntary and therefore by definition happens before one gets time process information and think.Over the past few days I've been reading this thread with a sense of trepidation. While obviously a number of incidents have occurred involving sudden acceleration, and we should all be grateful that to date no serious injuries or deaths have been detailed, the accepted bottomline seems to be that these are "probably" human error.
Muscle memory and reflex movements are real things that are learnt by humans. We should not be limiting technology because some humans refuse to learn and adapt. After driving with regen brakes for a while presumably your muscle memory or reflexes would tell you to take your foot off the throttle.
Every new car has a learning curve for the driver. As drivers, of any car, it is our responsibility to pay attention to which buttons we press (gears selected), and which pedal our foot is on. If they are too close to press one without engaging the other then that IS a problem, but pressing the R or the D buttons is not a design problem.
The arguments presented above would seem to suggest that antilock brakes should be outlawed because most drivers beyond a certain age learnt to pump their brakes to stop in the shortest distance and avoid skidding.
I'm all for showing compassion and support, but let's stop blaming the tools and accept that the user of the tool is the responsible entity.
Lets all be drive careful and be safe.